How to Plan the Best Bachelorette Party for your Friend

While there are numerous occasions to celebrate the happy couple and their new married life, the bachelorette party is the one that is dedicated just to the bride. 

A day before the wedding, the bachelorette party used to be a low-key dinner or luncheon, but now it’s a full-blown vacation weekend replete with matching swimwear, private boat excursions, and its own hashtags. Here are some bachelorette party ideas to help you plan an amazing last weekend of freedom for your friend.

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Compile a List of Invitees

Brides should first select the core group of guests for their bachelorette party they see as their closest ‘squad’. This is the ideal reason to gather all your favourite friends together. How you arrange your accommodation and what you do will depend on how many people are in your group.

Choose a Location 

There are a number of considerations when picking a bachelorette party location. The first few are self-evident, including preferred climates, atmosphere, and activities. Is an alcohol-free party your preference? Is a night out at a club more your speed, or would you rather unwind in a quiet cabin?  The answers to these questions will help you narrow your choices. 

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Make your Lodging and Reservations Early 

Once you’ve finalized your guest list, you may reserve a home or hotel room, as well as make plans for entertainment like winery bookings, concerts, party buses, and bottle service. 

Maintaining financial discipline requires recording all of your expenditures. Get this done at least three months before the big bash!

Get the Party Supplies, Decorations, and Menu Planned Out.

It’s best to start researching bachelorette party ideas early and then begin planning games and other activities to keep your guests occupied a month or two before the party by buying party goodies for them and making other preparations. You’ll find a wide variety of fun supplies at a party store.

If the bachelorette party will take place in a home, now is also a great time to plan out what you’ll eat and prepare a shopping list. For large gatherings, it is recommended that you use a slow cooker.

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Discuss Potential Locations with the Bride

You should begin planning your weekend getaway location around six months in advance. First, inquire from the bride about her desired weekend kind. 

Have a raucous night out into the wee hours? Will she want a weekend at the lake with little activity? Her reply will determine the potential destination where the party will take place. 

Set the Date for the Event

As to what benefits follow from picking a future date? If you have a certain amount of time in mind, you’ll be better able to estimate how much money you’ll need to put down on a home and how long you’ll need to stay there.

Come up with Fun Games

There are a lot of game options for bachelorette parties which can be tailored to the type of party being hosted. If you have a mixed age group you can do fun activities like a scavenger hunt or make a toilet paper bridal dress. If it’s an adults only affair, you can make things a bit more amusing like Pin the Penis on the Hunk or adult pass the parcel. Instead of a normal prize, wrap up something like a fantasy style dildo which will make all the girls burst into laughter when unwrapped.

Get a ballpark estimate for the cost of using two or three different sites.

Do not skip this essential stage and rely on guesswork. Begin by exploring potential places to live and leisure activities. So that you might have a sense of how you would spend your time and how much it would cost, it is pertinent that you put up a sample schedule and estimated total cost.

Send your visitors important reminders.

Send out a short email to visitors a week or two ahead of the weekend to remind them of the weekend’s important aspects. 

Arrive early to provide time for setup

Get there early to set things for a fantastic bachelorette weekend. This may take more time than you anticipate; plan accordingly and consider recruiting assistance.

Can Anyone Get Invited to a Bachelorette Party?

The choice is with the bride. Some women may invite just the immediate members of the bridal party, while others will include extended relatives and friends as well as their significant other’s inner circle. 

Those who are invited to the bachelorette party should also be invited to the wedding, and no one’s gender should be a factor in the invitation process.

When Is the Best Time to Have a Bachelorette Party?

Even while there are no hard and fast rules on when the bachelor party should take place (as different seasons are ideal for various vacation spots), most parties take place a month or so prior to the wedding.

When Is the Right Time to Begin Organizing a Bachelorette Party?

Depending on the scope of the bachelorette party, a planning window of three to six months is recommended. 

You’ll have plenty of time to learn about the bride and guests’ tastes and to make any reservations or bookings essential to carrying out the plan without a hitch.

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Who Plans the Bachelorette party?

It is customary for the maid of honour, a small number of bridesmaids, or a small number of acquaintances to organize the bachelorette party, although this is not a hard and fast rule. Planning a wedding by oneself is entirely acceptable.