As time passes, most people discover that somewhere along the path, the person they’ve loved and lusted for all those years has changed. Is it something that you should worry about? Not necessarily. When you were younger, every chance to be alone with the person dearest to your heart was truly a godsend. Unfortunately, now you are an adult, and you have to deal with all those things that belong to the adult world – taxes, your car breaking down in the least appropriate moment, and eating healthy.
Does it mean that this is all that you can expect from life? Absolutely not! If you only put enough effort, you and your partner could feel like you are teenagers once again. In a minute, you’ll learn what are the methods that you should definitely try out. Let’s go!
Greetings are important!
One of the easiest ways to add some excitement to your relationship is to transform the way you greet each other completely. Sure, you could make him a delicious dinner that would be waiting for him once he returns from the office, but there are simpler ways. A strong coffee would make him more energised, but maybe the next time he comes back home you could wear your lingerie – and nothing else.
Do something scary together!
You may have heard that watching horror movies is an excellent idea for a date, but now there’s a science to prove it! Sure, being scared is a great excuse to get closer to his incredible pecs, but there’s more to it. In short, our bodies react in a very similar way when we are scared, and when we are aroused. We feel the physiological response before we know why we feel this way. That’s why if there are multiple possible answers, we can even mistake those two. It means that if two of you visit a haunted house, you could feel surprisingly horny.
A little practise?
If you feel that one of the main reasons that you two have drifted apart is that he’s just not that good at sex, then perhaps you need some help. How to teach someone to be better at sex? The answer is simple: you need sex toys. This way, if you’re smart enough, you won’t risk any injuries, and you can make the process somewhat fun. Not everyone is born a sex-god, but where there’s a will, there’s a way.
Be daring to make your relationship more exciting!
There’s nothing wrong with being afraid – the world is a scary place, but what matters is how we deal with our fear. Perhaps there are things that you’ve always wanted to try in the bedroom but were afraid that your partner might be weirded out. I assure you – in the 99%, the 1% being fantasies involving reptiles, most men would be more than happy to help you act out your sexual fantasies.
There’s nothing worse than sex that feels like a routine. Instead of just going through the motions, there should be more than just thrusting and pounding. I’m sure that somewhere behind all those layers of frustration, there are some sexual fantasies that would make pornstars blush. All that you need to do is to communicate with your partner.
Even if your partner instinctively always knows what you would love to have for dinner, it won’t be of much help. It is much harder to guess what someone else fantasizes about. We might not even be sure about our own sexual fantasies, that is until we find ourselves surrounded on all sides by silhouettes clad in latex.
Exercising regularly has a myriad of positive effects on our bodies and minds. Among many, it:
- Helps to deal with the stress
- Makes your mind sharper
- Improves your mood
- Makes you look hotter
- Makes you more energetic
- Increases your libido.
If you want to make sure that you continue exercising no matter what, having a workout partner would do wonders, especially if your spouse is your workout partner. You’ll motivate each other to push even harder, and you’ll notice the positive effects quickly. No, you won’t gain muscle in no time, but your energy levels will rise almost instantly. On top of that, both heavy lifting and cardio are great when it comes to improving sex drive. Given the fact that hitting the gym can make your relationship better in so many ways, there’s absolutely no reason not to do that, so don’t wait!
It’s not the end!
There comes a moment in every relationship when both sides care deeply about the other person, but it seems that something is lacking. It doesn’t mean that just because it isn’t ideal, you should not make attempts at improving it! We are used to our expectations being matched perfectly. Unfortunately, nothing in this life, except for Youtube recommendation algorithm, will suit your taste perfectly. When it comes to relationships, you won’t always get what you want, but it doesn’t mean that you should not try your best to make it slightly better. Yes, it is worth it.