It’s funny isn’t it, when you believe you’re winning. You win. When you have a bad mindset, things don’t always go to plan.
2017 was a great year for both Elle Blonde and ELLEfluence and I know 2018 is going to be even bigger and better. Why? Simply because I’m manifesting it like there’s no tomorrow. I’ve got 11 top tips how you too can manifest wealth. Simply practice them as often as you can and you too can make 2018 your year!
If it no longer serves a purpose, say goodbye
If you’re wanting a positive change, you have to make room for it. I talked about this at the beginning of the week when I discussed ‘How to work smarter, not harder this year’. This can start with decluttering; from clothes to junk and even to people. The thing is when you show the Universe you are decluttering, you’re letting it know that you’re open to better things. You’re making room. Abundance is coming your way.
The success mindset
I said it before, believe you’re successful and good comes to you. Think negatively and that’s what you attract. I’m massively into the Law of Attraction and I purposely adopt this mindset proactively.
That negative person on Facebook. Unfriend them. That moaning mother creating controversy on their Instagram story. Unfollow them. That ‘friend’ who saps your energy when you spend time with them. Avoid them. Honey, you do you! You need to surround yourself with positivity and abundance will follow.
If you have a negative relationship with money and have the view that ‘you’re too poor to afford that’ or ‘you can’t do this because you have to pay for something else’ you’re actually limiting your wealth. You’re putting a block in your way.
This is probably my most favourite success chart and you know what…it’s true. I often categorise people by ‘Successful’ or ‘Unsuccessful’ based on these traits. Successful people believe in themselves and they attract wealth, not just finance but also health and lifestyle through the belief and the power of their positive mindset.
Look forward and not backward
Our time is limited, once you have decided you’re going to have that success mindset the next step to creating wealth and abundance in your life is to move forward. Take action. Unless you proactively take action, you’re going to be stagnant. By creating the movement, you again are sending messages to the Universe to say look, here I am, I’m ready for success because I’m making changes for the good.
You are your own life boss
Ever wondered why the people you admire are absolutely smashing their goals? They don’t ask for permission. Not from friends or family, not from the Universe and certainly not from the voices inside their head. It’s simple really, you know instead of saying ‘can I do this?’ where you’re trapping yourself before you’ve even begun.
You should never feel like you deserve something, you should grant your own permission. Why not practice affirmations every morning when you wake up or every evening before bed and include your statement of granting permission yourself to become wealthy.
Control freaks are not allowed!
While the Universe loves specificity, when you’re setting goals and planning how to achieve them sometimes you must be careful that your method isn’t too rigid.
Similarly to if you’re manifesting a partner you should manifest the qualities you wish to have in somebody and not an exact person.
If you inform the Universe you want to increase your income in a specific way then you will be blindsided towards other opportunities and routes.
When you ask the Universe to deliver, it delivers in its own unique way. Sometimes it’s a better outcome and even more generous or simple than you could ever have imagined.
Hopes, wishes and dream goals
If you keep your dreams and goals secret then come on, you’re not really believing in them. So how can the Universe help you to achieve them if you don’t even believe?
If you don’t share it, is it because you don’t believe in it, you don’t think you can achieve it or do you not think it’s that important?
Why not try talking to those closest to you about your goals? Perhaps they can help you, perhaps you’ll figure things out by talking about them.
What I like to do is create a vision board. By placing things on this vision board which I look at daily it helps me visualise my goals to keep me on track.
I’ll be sharing my business and personal goals with you next week, which I’m excited about!
The power is in your hands
Choice allows you to manifest everything you want. Every morning you have two choices, to wallow in self-pity or to be great. I know which one I choose.
Do you know, choice is not good nor bad, what it is, however, is a decision between empowerment and moving forward or a bad choice based on fear.
Which will you choose for the life you’ve always wanted?
Pay and be paid
Sometimes if we lack money our natural reaction goes into fear mode and we begin to focus on what we haven’t got instead of what we could have.
Pay and be paid is a concept from one of my all-time favourite wealth coaches Denise Duffield Thomas where she actively encourages you to pay somebody for a service or donate to a cause. When you’re giving, you’re telling the Universe you’re also ready to receive.
Think back to the relationship you have with money. Is it a positive one or a negative one? If it’s negative then you need to embrace the paper, you need to start to see money as your friend and not an enemy. The better relationship you have with money the more abundant your life will be.
Fear is your friend
Of course, I don’t expect you to be the most positive person and be claiming you’re open to abundance if first you don’t believe in manifestation and sending signals to the Universe, or if you’re not in the right mindset.
If you’re saying ‘I am open to abundance and wealth’ and then in your mind, you’re telling yourself otherwise then it’s not going to happen.
Let fear empower you, let the uncertainty be a learning tool and motivator. Being positive is about facing your fear and acknowledging it, however not letting it overpower you. When you face your fear you teach yourself that you have the power to achieve anything possible. The world really is your oyster.
Your words are your weapon
Words are powerful beyond measure. How many times have you said something and it’s come to life?
The use of words creates our reality so you should always choose your words wisely. Eliminate the three most dis-empowering phrases you know; ‘someday’, ‘one day’ and ‘in the future’. Instead, put a time stamp on them. Once you make a commitment the journey to your goal really moves forward.
When you set a deadline for a goal you’re signalling to the Universe that you have a plan to move forward. You’re open to accepting you have a set period of time to achieve this goal. After all the Universe loves specificity.
Healthy body, healthy mind
Life gets on top of us, I get it! I used to be so obsessed with exercise and then when I became depressed and negative my whole life changed. I stopped exercising and I wasn’t healthy anymore. My mind suffered as did my approach to everything. Great thing is, you can always change for the good!
Never neglect your health! Every day make time to meditate even if it is for 5 minutes and ensure you exercise daily.
If you’re looking for a great meditation app I highly recommend headspace and as for exercise head over to youtube for all types of great inspiration. Grab a friend and join a class together. Your body and mind will thank you for it.
Girls just want to have funds
Go on, treat yourself I dare you. Far too frequently people treat money and finances as pain and torture. Regardless of how much you have (or currently lack) if you don’t appreciate the ride, what’s the point? Be creative, find yourself, stay humble and always love the journey.
If you have fun with money, buy yourself something good, treat a loved one. Why not buy a stranger a coffee or pay for a homeless person to eat? The more fun you have with money, the more positive your relationship will be with money. Not only will you become wealthier financially, you’ll become wealthier in experiences and achieving your goals.
Now what you waiting for, put these manifesting tips into action and if you’ve got any others. You know what to do. Comment below.
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